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How To Increase Your Toddler’s Attention Span

How To Increase Your Toddler’s Attention Span

Children’s growth depends on the ways they perceive what is been performed in front of them. The most of what they learn and how they learn is done at home. The environment and type of atmosphere given to a child at home is the first phase in which the child starts to understand the surroundings. The growth and ability to understand and to pay attention depends on their parents as well as another source like relatives etc. who teach them the ways to use their mental ability to perceive things and importance of paying attention. A mother is the first teacher for a child and therefore, she holds the responsibility to nurture the little bundle of joy in every aspect of a life. Also, a mother is another possible creature who has the power to feel and understand what is right and wrong for her child. Usually, children seek to copy what they perceive from their elders. This plays an initial role in their attention process. They would pay more attention to things that are enjoyable, positive, and lovable and things that are suitable according to their age. Therefore, when a mother is trying to provide knowledge to children, she should make sure that she does it in an enjoyable manner so that children would take interest and ultimately their attention span will grow. It becomes a challenge for children when they initially become a part of environments such as school and peer groups. The only thing affects the power of a child to concentrate is the distraction he faces. Some children have a short attention span while others are able to focus easily without getting themselves indulge in any sort of distraction. The increase in the attention span cannot adhere to a child anytime. This phenomenon should be cleared and improved in the early toddler years. This means that a child does not learn only when he starts his schooling but, as soon as he starts to interact with a family, his mind starts to develop. Also, a child, if been taught for like an hour, cannot pay attention for an hour completely. There is a limit for a child to focus on certain things.

Here are the three most appropriate points which I think every parent should keep in mind before trying to improve the attention span of a child:

  • Don’t expect much from your child. Provide him time to learn to focus.
  • Distractions are also somewhat necessary.
  • Should be able to identify if a child is going through any type of disorder which is lacking him to focus.

At times, the mind of a child is sufficiently sharp to accomplish and comprehend what is been educated, however, he may encounter trouble in paying a great measure of thoughtfulness or concentration regarding the comparable thing particularly when they learn at home. The most exact case of the situation which I as a parent have found in my kid is the point at which he self-contemplate and when he thinks about under my eye. When a psyche of a youngster begins to assume its part, a kid gets up and divert himself with circumstances like thirst, hunger, or an inclination to pee. These are some exceptionally normal reasons or excuses kids make while at the same time they are expected to focus on a particular thing. Whereas mother knows when a kid entirely something or whether it’s only a reason.

The issue of focusing isn’t just among youthful children, yet usually among senior kids and grown-ups also. When centering turns into an issue and it stays there for a more extended period, where it ends up being a suitable issue or a psychological maladjustment out and out. Consideration is available all in all human mind and when there is an issue with the mind of an individual, it doesn’t stay as only an absence of consideration.

Being a mother, I have always been curious to make children be more attainable to things and more focusable. Children do not only learn or need to have a great deal of focus when they study, rather the process of learning always keep on going throughout the life and somewhere or the other, a child learns new things. To be able to understand the important concepts within the situation, one should be able to free his mind from elsewhere and try to only keep the accurate things in mind at that particular period of time. This is how attention is perceived.

  • Indulging in Mind Games.

Children need enjoyment in order to complete any sort of challenge given to them. Making them work for straight longer hours would eventually make them tired and their concentration level will initially decrease. Hence, adding up activities like solving games, mind related activities and exercises, jumping jacks, jogging etc. for 15-20 would refresh them and then they would be able to work with a high level of attention.

  • Present New Information Gradually

With the measure of data that kids recover and process each day, at times it senses that it’s coming at them from a fire hose and they may wind up diverted and befuddled. Youngsters learn and hold data at their own particular pace. That is the reason it’s smarter to present new material in nibble estimated increases. You may take a stab at utilizing cheat sheets to enable your kid to learn new Chinese characters or execute separated redundancy.

  • Carry Out One Task at a Time

At the point when looked with different errands, youthful kids frequently feel overpowered and have a tendency to close down. Quite a bit of this includes the child’s failure to deal with his or her capacities. These capacities manage the cerebrum’s capacity to get sorted out, control feelings, retain realities or guidelines, and finish ventures.

Rather than giving your youngster a rundown of activities and anticipate that they will complete a series of requests, take a stab at cooperating with your tyke and concentrating on one assignment at any given moment. For instance, when giving your kid’s evaluation books to finish, you can begin by requesting that he do just a single point first. Toward the culmination of that point, you dole out just the following subject and your kid works through the assignments incrementally as opposed to battling with the way that he needs to complete three themes in an examination session

  • Set Up a Reward System

Setting up a reward framework can rouse your youngster to keep focused. Regardless of whether they’re doing school work, extracurricular exercises, or errands around the house, kids have a tendency to be more inspired when the task includes a reward.

It requires some push to make a powerful reward framework. The more points of interest you incorporate into the necessities and the reward itself, the more effective it will be. It’s additionally useful to enable your kid to take an interest in deciding the reward. It’s likewise a smart thought to change the reward frequently. On the off chance that you offer similar rewards, again and again, your tyke may end up exhausted and lose intrigue.

  • Be Patient

Endeavoring to achieve an assignment with children that is diverted or restless can be to a great degree depleting for you. Nonetheless, in the event that you enable yourself to get pushed and lose your temper, you will make it significantly more troublesome for your youngster to center. In the event that your kid sees you lose your temper, he or she may feel advocated to get irate also. Shouting at your youngster can have an enduring negative effect on their attitude towards homework and study time.

Along these lines, when you help your kid with homework or some other undertaking, it’s critical that you keep up your levelheadedness. On the off chance that you feel that your youngster is occupied in light of the fact that the work exhibited is excessively testing, let both your kid and yourself enjoy a reprieve.

These are a few ways I have used to make children more concentrated and to make them able to be focused not only in studies but to learn from any sort of situation he gets himself into. Being a mother, I know how difficult is to nurture a child, especially growing him mentally. Physical growth is important to be taken care off, but mental growth is something, which has to be critically seen and examined. The grown child with low mental growth is not only a sad thing for parents, but a child has to go through himself throughout his life. When a child is unable to understand easily, or when he cannot pay attention no matter what, he soon turns out to be a dull person in the eyes of others. This does not only affects the

While at the same time you’re playing, react to everything your child says, yet don’t be excessively energetic or engaging. Spare showing aptitudes for some other time. On the off chance that you occupy your kid with discussion, he won’t have the capacity to keep up his concentration autonomously. For instance, in case you’re perusing so anyone can hear, don’t intrude on yourself to discuss the story. Attempt to shield your child from hindering too. Urge him to take after along as you read at an unfaltering pace.

 

You may see that your youngster has a shorter ability to focus and is more dynamic in the wake of sitting in front of the TV. Provided that this is true, limit the time he spends before a screen. On the off chance that he watches TV, pick appears with a slower pace that recount a story as opposed to those that component consistent activity.

The above example illustrates how some children are not able to reach the average time period while concentrating which makes it impossible for them to remain in one place for long. They urge to move as soon as their patience ends and their flow of attention breaks. Such issues can be resolved if a mother herself would pay more attention to her child. If she knows that the child has a problem of keep on moving or changing positions when he was asked to complete his homework or assignment, then a mother should try to stay close to him. Unfortunately, women, these days have a lot of responsibilities on their head which lacks them to focus on their children’s growth. But when a mother like me knows that it is the time to support my child and focus on his development, then I should stay close to my child. If cannot sit in a room for hours to teach, then a mother should take her child with her while doing her work, like in a kitchen. She can keep an eye on her child and make sure that he would complete the given task.

  • Whenever parents or other members are playing with kids, they ought to be effectively connected with, you disclosed to Live Science. This implies really playing alongside the children, not simply investing energy with them by being in a similar room and looking somewhere else or seeming occupied.
  • Give the youngster a chance to lead. This implies parents ought to take after their youngster’s lead as they play and enable the child to express enthusiasm for a toy first. At that point, the parent can grow that enthusiasm by naming the toy and empowering play. When parents endeavored to lead by getting a kid to center around a specific protest, they were less effective in picking up the youngster’s consideration.
  • Be receptive to a kid’s needs and consideration. The discoveries demonstrated that a parent’s reactions to their child’s conduct had a continuous effect on the baby’s conduct and consideration.

Also, if I would want my child to take an interest in things I want him to do like studies, then, first of all, I should take interest in things he likes. Scolding a child every time would not help him to grow, but eventually, he will start to feel alone and away, hence, a mother should always be her child’s first friend and should love the things her child likes. Playing with children would also help them to be more into you which would later help them to focus on things for you.‘’What we perceive, stays in our minds till the end’’, this implies the importance of good attention span among children. In a class full of fifty children, a teacher can expect that her lecture would be heard by almost every student present, but she could not expect every student to understand what she talked about. This is because some of them have less or no interest in what has been taught, and some of them have a great amount of interest but because of some things, they were not able to pay attention and so they did not understand what is ben taught. There is a difference in listening and understanding, and listening without understanding is a waste of time and efforts. Understanding can be done only when a child has focused on what is been taught.

Every single child in this world deserves everything. Being the future, they deserve to be on the top, and to get them on top, institutions such as schools need to provide great opportunities to learn. To be on the top they need to get through things in life which lacks them to move ahead. In this scenario, a child should always have a support of his parents and teachers. Parents are the best source, a child can end up reaching to whenever difficulties strikes and a teacher is someone who is always available to sole difficulties as many time as a child need. The above-listed points will help to treat children and help them to improve their attention span, after which they would be able to focus more, understand more and get everything in life they deserve.

About the author

Lauren Brown

I am Lauren Brown, mom of 2 beautiful and smart kids. Parenting is called to be simple for mom or dad, but it is not as simple it looks. With my own experience and being a parenting counsellor, I help you to be the best Mom & Dad in your kid's world.

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